Want Law of Attraction Tips for Your Life?

There has been a lot of talk about the Secret and the Law of Attraction that was “revealed” in it. And even more talk and publications on how easy it is to attract everything we wish.  Unfortunately, most of the time it is based on a fundamental misrepresentation or – hopefully– misunderstanding of what this law implies.





The Law of Attraction is a law of Nature not some Magic Tool

First of all it is important to understand that this so called law is a law of nature. This means, that it just describes how Life works. It is not something you can apply or not. You and everything around you is always subject to this mechanism of interaction and response. Very simply put: you attract what you are focusing on.

An example: observe how small kids on their bicycles try NOT bumping into the lamppost that unexpectedly crosses their path? Guess what happens. Probably you still remember your own big bump-on-the-head! I’m simplifying, but it illustrates how we can think that our focus is in some place, where actually our focus it is elsewhere. Another example: for most people it is true to state that even when they solemly swear they want to be rich, their subconscious cries out that it does not want to be a “bad rich person”.

Ask most people who want to be rich and almost all do not really believe they can. A majority alse secretly despises the super-wealthy of this world without ever having talked to them. Both attitudes will frustrate what these people believe they want it want.

All Thoughts Attract Response

What is the consequence of beliefs that are contrary to what we want to attract? Here’s what you have to understand: the part of you that is expressing its intention to become rich not only calls in energies to support that intention, it will also trigger a response in all parts of you. Those parts that make you feel inspired, but also those that function to protect you from hurt and change in general. An energy goes out and other energies respond – in other words you attract ALL these things, supportive and obstructive.

At this point many experts on the Law of Attraction bring in the concept of Affirmation or other methods of anchoring positive thoughts and feelings in your mind. The goal is to ban the thoughts and feelings that could frustrate the process of attracting what we want. I do not deny that such methods can be powerful, but most of us will end up using these methods mechanically without really feeling positive.

My suggested approach is three-fold.

First, do not just jump a the biggest thing your mind tells you that you want, but turn it around several times in your heart until you are clear on what is really worth attracting in your life.

Second, explore as much as you can the old patterns and beliefs that can become obstacles on the way to get what you may want. Find out how these have served you in the past and why you do or do not need them anymore. This way you will dissolve obstacles instead of trying too break them down with sheer mind-power.

Third, focus on what you really want to attract and let go of all concepts of how it will come into your life or even what it will actually look like. Open yourself for everything that might help bring your desire in your life.

 Be active and aware.A final note to this all: in the end what you want is not really a “thing”, a “substance”, but a certain experience or feeling.

If I do all this, is it possible to Attract Money in My Life?

The rumors about the Law of Attraction claim that you can materialize stuff into your life, so why not money?Let us look at the kid and the lamppost first. Did the kid place the lamppost right there in its path? I would say yes and no. The potentials of what the kid could experience are myriad. When we limit ourselves to the setting, still a million things can happen with the kid trying out its new bicycle. Does the kid plan to bump into the lamppost?

Not exactly, but in its conscious and unconscious mind a lot is going on: I don’t want to bump, I don’t want to fall, I can’t steer away and even: what happens if I just continue in this direction?

An important factor is whether the kid has learnt to trust in its own capabilities and simply knows that he or she can steer around the obstacle. If that is the case, suddenly all things flow together, muscles, mind and matter. The outcome is not really predictable, but all kids do not always hit the poor lamppost, right? Instead they learn to trust and focus on that what is helpful.

Now for the riches or the beautiful wealthy partner that you want to create in your life. Can you really attract them? I absolutely believe so, but can you be so clear, focused and trusting that you will? Let me review: in order to bring something into your life you need

(1) the clarity

(2) the right mindset and

(3) focus and trust.

It is important to understand that from the very start of your life you have already been busy sending out a lot of messages to the universe and attracting response. If you are willing to accept that you did create the “lack” of that what you now wish to “attract”, then you do understand the way this Law of Attraction works and that your present situation is no accident.

The three-fold process in the previous paragraph will help you to define and most of all understand and feel what you really want. It opens you up to the idea that it may not be Money or that the Perfect Partner will be different that your previous vision.

Aligning to the Law of Attraction

Now that you understand the fundamentals of this mysterious law, you can really begin to “make use of it”. That is, making changes to you way of thinking, your old beliefs about yourself and others and first and foremost explore what it really is that you want to bring into your life. Knowing that you attract or create everything in your life, it might be helpful to appreciate even the smallest specs of light in your life. This will re-enforce your intention, better even than affirmations, because it is solid evidence – and your mind likes that.

If this article has been helpful and you want to add or comment, please do so as it may help other readers of this blog too!!!

Meditate or Breathe for a Moment

Conscious Breathing is Easier Than Meditation.And just as effective – lasting longer as well

I don’t now if you are familiar with Meditation. But certainly you are with Breathing. No one had to teach you how to do it and it is with you ever since your very first moment out here on earth. And now it is time for Conscious Breathing!

If you are like me, you are too impatient for Meditation. Sitting still, turning inward, emptying the mind from thoughts. I tried and tried, but it was really trying indeed. Most of the time it felt like I could not arrive at this indefinite place – at best I felt deeply relaxed. But most of the time it was not too satisfying. Lucky you if you can meditate.For those that look for the quick fix – that also allows you to go deep if you want to, here’s a new way….

It is Conscious Breathing. It certainly is much different than meditation. Its intention is not to move away from the present, not to drift away from this reality. The intention is to expand, to be more conscious of the fullness of who you are. To be fully present in your body and at the same time experience the vastness of life – of your life and to bring this experience into you now moment. You can do it whenever and wherever you want, but I admit it helps to find a quiet spot if you’re new to it.

Conscious Breathing means being aware of your breath. Taking a moment of being present with your breath, inhaling and exhaling. Remembering what it is, really. Without breath, no life. It is your life line. And when you do deep conscious breathing you will feel you can draw in Life. No wonder people say that fresh air is “revitalizing”. It is. A hint to this truth can be found in old sacred texts that mention how the divine breath started human life.

The greatest news about it all is , that conscious breathing is easy – you already know the basics    Even better, no need to strain yourself, relax, just breathe, just focus on the breathing, no need to try to move into stillness or whatever other names you’ve heard. On the contrary, it is good when you stay present in your body. Stay aware and awake, feel how the breath makes you more lively and connects you to your self.

10 Techniques To Improve Your Speaking Skills

1. Education is about learning the basic principles, but to become an effective speaker is to practice what you have learned. My stint as guest at every single Toastmasters’ conference I go to taught me that people all have our boundaries, but that does not imply we can’t understand to keep up and reveal what we know.

2. It’s just as critical as asking questions. Sometimes listening to the sound of our personal voice can teach us to be somewhat bit confident with ourselves and to say the things we believe in with confidence.

3 Most of us make errors, and at times we have a tendency to slur our words, stutter, and most likely mispronounce specific words although we know what it means, but seldom use it only to wow listeners. And so in a group, do not be afraid to ask if you’re saying the best word correctly and if they are not sure about it then make a joke from it. I promise you it’ll make every person giggle and it is possible to get away with it also.

4 There is a whole lot to say with regards to directing your attention to your audience with an eye-catching gaze. It’s critical which you keep your focus when speaking with a huge group in a meeting or a gathering, although he or she might be gorgeous.

5 A little bit of humor can do miracles to lift the tension, or worse indifference when creating your talk. This way, you’ll get the attention of the majority of the crowd and they’ll feel that you’re just as approachable, and as human to those that listen.

6. Interaction is all about interacting with other individuals. You’ll get a whole lot of ideas, also as realizing what individuals make them as they are. This interior design services has a suggestion box for this issue.

7. Be honest, you will find instances you sing to your self inside the bathtub. I know I do! Hearing the sound of your personal voice whilst you practice your speech looking at a mirror can help correct the stress areas of your pitch. And whilst you’re at it it is possible to spruce up also.

8. A grin says it all a lot like eye contact. At this sexy stories website, the number of smiles directly results in more customers.There is no point on grimacing or frowning in a conference or a get together, unless it’s a wake. You can greater express what you’re saying if you smile.

9. There need to be at least 1 or 2 individuals in your life you might have paid attention to when they’re at a community gathering or maybe at cathedral. Sure they read their lines, but choosing a mental note of how they highlight what they say can allow you to when you take center stage.

10. Make the best out of preparing rather than just scribbling notes and frequently in a hurried panic. Several individuals like to write things down on index cards, whilst different make use of being somewhat far more silly as they examine their notes written on the palm of their hand (not for clammy hands, please). You should be comfy with what you know because you enjoy your work.

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What Are The 5 Areas Of Achievements To Be Focused in 2017

I want you to know that there’s no better time than to get excited about your life and goals – not because it’s going to turn 2017, it’s simply because today is always the best time.

There are 5 areas of life and personal improvement that I would seek to improve – health, relationship, spirituality, financial wealth and personal growth.

 None of them are at a higher priority than the others as they’re all holistically balanced to create the right combination of success in life.

It’s a fact that if you don’t have financial wealth, your life could be slightly ‘inconvenient’. If you gonna give me the lecture that the monks and priests live happily ever after without seeking wealth, then I’m not going to argue with you. But look – you’re no monk or priest so be real, nothing to be embarrassed of.

 Money is never evil. It’s a big wrong myth that rich people are arrogant, greedy or selfish and as a matter of fact, most of them are the opposite. So I would suggest you to make your goal setting in 2017 to get to know some millionaires and rich people to learn what their secrets to wealth are. Who knows – they might even pass you some opportunities you can work together with them.

If you think you’re poor today, it’s because you ‘choose’ to become this way by your acts and thoughts. Same thing – if you’re rich, it’s because the way how you act upon opportunities and think of positive outcomes.  People just don’t understand how Law of Attraction actually works.

Look – you have to work for your own success. If you’re smart, you buy some courses or attend seminars to uncover the shortcuts or just take the long road by testing out on your own. Your choice. Both ways are fine and both still require work.

The other 2 important areas that are usually missed out when someone pursue the goal of attaining financial wealth is relationship and health. My friend, time flies very fast. Within a blink of an eye, you’ll see your children already grown up or your folks getting old. So cherish what you have now because by end of the day, your success is actually measured by the relationship that you have – not the money in your bank account.

Health? Put it this way, you can’t enjoy spending your money earned if you don’t have the body and mind to enjoy it. But I can tell you this – don’t be a health freak and miss out the joy of life. I mean, don’t eat cheese burger every day but hey, don’t torture yourself of not eating that because you’re worried that you’re going to get heart attack or something. Life is short – enjoy your food but just don’t go extreme on it. Dude, I’m not asking you to take drugs, it’s a cheese burger for Pete’s sake.

One more thing about health – if you can afford it, do take supplements especially those green stuff supplements. Our food and environment are getting worse so you need whatever ‘effortless’ thing to give you the edge to stay focus, energetic and vibrant when you’re on track to success.

Spirituality comes from within. Whether it’s your connection to God, your inner voice, Law of Attraction and so on, it gives you the serenity and harmony in your mind and soul. You need that. You’ve seen and heard of stories people ‘let go’ of everything and pursue a greater goal because they have aligned with their spirituality part and ultimately, it leads to happiness. My point? Spirituality leads to happiness. Interestingly, our goal is suppose to seek happiness but you don’t see people attending seminars about this topic because they thought financial wealth makes them happy and so on. The truth… happiness is obtain when you’re grateful with what you have and understands that you have a beautiful life – regardless of who you are.

And lastly, I’ll be seeking for more personal growth in 2017. Personal growth is about enriching your experience and expanding your knowledge. You see, the only thing that does not change is Change itself. So if you want to transform yourself into a better person in any positive angle, then I highly suggest you to uncover many more secrets to personal growth that you are still unaware of.

Whether you attend seminars regularly, listen to audios or read more self improvement blog, it’s your responsibility to continue ‘upgrading’ yourself. No one’s going to motivate you or give you the cutting edge strategies for success – you got to seek that out for yourself because, again, it’s your life.

One more thing – stop telling people about your sad story or TELLING YOURSELF, get over that and start thinking how you can reach your goals (but please, not by asking the Universe to give you money).

All the best…

Harnessing Your Inner Power To Succeed In Any Home Business

One of the greatest forces to ever occur is the human mind, and you can apply that in business very simply. The cause for this is simply that the thoughts and resulting behavior you hold on a daily basis will have more of an effect on your business than the most costly course ever made. In terms of engaging in any offline or web based business, it is just a situation of learning what is involved with it.

When you imagine about it, we basically discover or buy information that teaches how to complete something like building a squeeze page or bringing in traffic to our various sites. Not any of those things are tough to learn or do, and the info is freely available for the person who needs to find it. Yet it is commonly recognized that not everybody succeeds in business, and that implies that there is something more to the situation.

For decades, much has been written with regards to the various subjects that relate to believing, behavior and achieving goals in life and business. It is straightforward really, and just think about it in terms of demand and the desire of so many people to figure out why it is a problem for them. There are many approaches to bettering one’s success attitude.

 Some approaches and techniques will be more successful for different people, and there are plenty of reasons for that. But not a lot will change, overall, and there will continue to be those who attempt and quit. We do understand and admit that modifying the way one thinks is not an easy process, and possibly partly because of that a lot of people will never even consider it.

Just some cases of what we are talking about include the evergreen areas of human psychology such as self-belief, self esteem, capacity to believe and have faith and other similar and related areas. We all can intuitively observe and fully grasp why these areas are so essential. Yet so many people choose to ignore these personal qualities, if they have them. It really is one thing to have no awareness of these attributes and their consequence, but we are inclined to think a lot of people do and simply never address them.

What makes these particular qualities so damaging is that often times they cause people to take part in self sabotage. It is much less complicated for the mind to act out sabotaging initiatives than it is to deal with the issues and do the hard work to defeat them.

Naturally there can be a lot of hard work and effort involved with overcoming personal issues, but it is achievable. True accomplishment, for the person with personal challenges, will start by admitting the existence of these distinct issues. The courageous choice is to admit it, and then make a decision to do something about it.

Doing this kind of work with yourself will necessitate dedication, and naturally changes will take time. A suitable analogy can be found with building and expanding a business. Whether it’s traditional business like selling solar panels for your home or online business like supplying cell phone tracker software package, requires effective planning, implementation as well as execution in every single stages to achieve success.

In business, you have to tackle your goals and tasks in order of top priority and importance, and you understand it takes time to develop a business. In fact, you cannot absolutely transform yourself overnight, and you will be setting yourself up for frustration and setback if you attempt. Recognize what your obstacles are and never feel frightened of them or that you cannot overcome them. If anything, avoid fighting yourself over it, and maybe find a way to move forward regardless of the challenges.

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How to be more Happy……

Do you think that is grass is greener on the other side and what you have is just a bunch of scrap strewn around your lawn? Is thinking so, wrong??

Well, I think so too, and I don’t find anything wrong in it. My life is messed up as of now. I have a thousand things going around in my head but don’t know what to do about them. I wish I could do this, I wish I could that, I wish I could own that Royal Enfield when it passes my way again, Ohh, I wish so much, I wish the grass could be greener on my side too!

So now that you have started thinking, what do you do about it? Do you just think and envy those on the other side of the fence.


 Envy is the art of counting the other fellow’s blessings instead of your own. -Harold Coffin 

Now when I say, I want to own the Royal Enfield that doesn’t mean I envy the guy riding it. Yes, I am jealous because I don’t own it yet but I am not jealous because he has it. He owns it, good for him (that shouldn’t make a difference to me), but I own it! (Now, that is what I should really care about) When you want to be successful you pray, let me succeed, but don’t pray, let others fail!

Jealousy is both reasonable and belongs to reasonable men, while envy is base and belongs to the base, for the one makes himself get good things by jealousy, while the other does not allow his neighbour to have them through envy. -Aristotle 

Jealousy is good but don’t let that turn into envy. Draw inspiration from it, channelize your energies. It’s not about why is the grass greener on the other side, but how do you make the grass greener on your own side. It’s about how you turn your dreams into reality.

 Thinking about others and wallowing in self-pity is not going to get you anywhere. Don’t like the barren piece of land you live on? Then go ahead and change it. Be it changing your present condition, changing your attitude, being happy with what you have or making the most of the things you got! It’s your Life, make it your own! If you wanta garden thenyou got to work for it baby.

Few suggestions to help you turn your grass greener, if you are clueless and just need help starting up.


 Assess Your Abilities.

There are things which you do and things you think you can do. Try out as many things as you want. You think you can cook, paint, sing, dance, write, but never tried it, go ahead give yourself a chance.

Be aware of yourself.

Don’t Envy Others.

You know you can dance really well, but can’t cook, but wish you could learn how to do it. Now that is no reason to envy others who can cook well. Go ahead, take help from those who can cook, why make an enemy when you can gain a friend!

Have an Aim, Work Hard For It.

You start of well, but when failure beckons, don’t give up, start again. If you want the grass greener, then you are supposed to water, feed and care for the saplings, only then will they give you the fruits you desire.


Understand What Makes YOU Happy.

There is no standard rule, as to, your grass is this green that means you are this percent successful, this percent happy or wealthy! It’s about what YOU want. Pursue your dreams. Making money is important, but that tiny little voice inside you which likes to do other things as well, don’t let that voice ever die.

As for me, I am no longer pitying myself, I write, I sketch, I go out, I smile more often, there is this sense of satisfaction which I am relishing and yes I am also working hard and saving up, to own the Royal Enfield…..

Winterize Your Entire Body: Seventeen Methods for Keeping Good This Winter season

Winter season coughs, the common cold and winter flu – who needs them? And who gets ‘em? Just about any person who’s not prepped to the onslaught – but this current year, you never have to be one of these. Start taking methods today to winterize your body, reinforce its protection and get it ready for the season.

 If you make smart food items, supplement and lifestyle choices now you’ll boost defense – giving your body precisely it needs to keep well directly on by means of till early spring. Here are 16 healthy techniques to do it:

Eat for Defense 

1. Take in Your Greens

Dark leafy greens are loaded with energy-boosting phytonutrients that nourish the good stomach bacteria in charge of keeping your immune system strong and properly-loaded to push away debilitating winter bugs. To get additional leafies on your plate, make room for greenery at each and every meal. Include spinach into your breakfast shake, toss cut kale into egg meals, bulk up meals with huge side salads, and put steamed plants to soups, stews and sauces. Consider each meal being an opportunity give your very good gut harmful bacteria!

2. Consume Your Greens

Work in an office where everyone’s got the sniffles? Then keep a supply of high quality vegetables powder with your fridge, and mix up a green drink to sip instead of espresso to keep energy levels high. Also you can add greens powder into your morning healthy proteins shake to start the day completely fortified. If you travel often, take a long a few Be Well Greens packets to help your good gut bacteria thrive when you are on the road.

3. Add Garlic cloves!

Roasted or raw, garlic clove is packed with anti-viral, antibacterial and antifungal substances that assist strengthen your body’s safeguarding against the bad bugs of winter. Even though raw garlic cloves packs a slightly more powerful nutritional punch, roasted garlic could well be the more delightful way to enjoy those immune system-enhancing compounds, so feel free to enjoy!

4. Have got a Side of Sauerkraut

Nourish your very good gut germs by adding fermented foods like sauerkraut and kimchi to your diet. Fermented foods have healthy, helpful bacteria (probiotics) that help always keep gut flora balanced and immunity higher. As the gut is home to approximately 70% of your immunity mechanism, one that is well nourished and healthy will be significantly less vulnerable to every single sniffle that sweeps from the office.

5. Dish Out Some Saturated Fat

Adding coconut oil for your diet is a great way to get a day-to-day dose of immunity-boosting lauric acid. So, how to input it to use? Try cooking with coconut gas, or combine it with your morning yoghurt or smoothie, lunchtime soup or cup of tea. Freaked out through the fat? Do not be. The entire body quickly converts coconut oil’s medium-chain essential fatty acids into completely ready-to-burn up energy.

6. Dump Sugar…Now!

Sugar is actually a double-whammy toxin that drastically decreases immune system function by killing your gut’s very good bacteria while it feeds the negative! The result? A gut that’s out of harmony, with the bad guys running amuck, and microbe defenses weaker and overwhelmed. You’re left with an immunity mechanism poorly equipped to fight off seasonal ills. Bottom line: Lay off the wonderful stuff to keep gut protection strong.

7. Junk All Processed Foods

One other reason to avoid processed foods: they weaken the immune system! Most processed foods are really nutrient-deficient and sugar-packed, they wind up above-providing the bad gut bacteria and starving excellent – and that’s the recipe for compromised defense.

Supplement for Immunity

Health supplements won’t undo the effects of your bad diet plan but they will maximize the advantages of a good one – so eat for best nutrition and consider adding a number of key nutritional supplements to your winter season immunity prepare:

1. Strength Up With a Probiotic

To aid the immunity mechanism repel intruders, fortify your good germs with a everyday probiotic, in capsule or powder form. Look for one which contains at the very least 10-20 billion viable organisms, and several kinds of good microorganisms, including lactobacillus and bifidobacteria, two of the very well-researched and commonly used forms of healthy germs.

2. Do Take Vitamin D

Adequate levels of Nutritional D are very important for optimal immune functionality, and several research indicates D to get an effective flu fighter. With wintertime sun in short offer, the work-around is always to boost your ranges by taking a Vitamin D3 supplement. Just how much do you need? It varies from person to person, so it is important to have your doctor look at the levels – which should be between 50 and 70ng/ml. Here are some guidelines on how to dietary supplement your degrees.

3. Funnel the Power of Herbal remedies

Antiviral natural herbs contain 1000s of medicinal ingredients that strike viruses. My favorite antivirals are andrographis, olive leaf draw out, grapefruit seed extract and elderberry draw out. Use one or several in combination like a prophylactic determine, particularly if you hang out in substantial-visitors areas including airports, office buildings, theaters, and so on. Another organic to have inside your immunity strategy: oil of oregano. It’s anti-microbial, contra –candica and anti-microbe and is incredible for enhancing the immune system. If you feel something coming on, add a fall in a window of water – it can work wonders!

4. Add this Nutrient

My favorite supplement to increase immunity is glutathione, the single most powerful anti-oxidant produced naturally in the body. But our body’s natural creation drops by roughly 10% per 10 years, so as we grow older, our need for supplementation raises. When purchasing, make sure you’re getting S-Acetyl Glutathione to ensure bioavailability – and reap greatest benefit.

5. Consider a Myer’s Cocktail

The liquid supplement and nutrient therapy drip, known as the Myer’s cocktail, is for many people, personally included, a strong winter-time must. Packed with micronutirents, as well as B and C vitamins (and frequently glutathione), Myer’s cocktail intravenous drips certainly are a wonderful immunity-enhancing tool for frequent travellers, parents of school-aged young children or anyone that is frequently exposed to large numbers of people – and computer viruses.

Lifestyle Defense Tips

Staying well will go hand-in-hand with treating your entire body well, so in winter, give it a little extra TLC by participating in to the concepts of good wellness:

1. Sleep More

Throughout cold and flu season, being run-down compromises immunity, making it easier for opportunistic popular infections to adopt hold. A robust immune system is a that’s possessed enough time to recover and restoration itself whilst the rest of you snoozes – so do not cut corners. Take for 7 – 8 hours a night and when sleep’s elusive, never reach for a prescription. Alternatively, get a little healthy assistance from our Sleep at night Formula.

2. Work Out

Sufficient exercise assists in keeping the immune system robust, so keep transferring throughout the winter season (but don’t overdo it that may overtax your pc). By keeping yourself active, you’ll also always keep weight, tension and winter months blues at bay – all of which will play a role in overall properly-being as well as the well being of your defense mechanisms.

3. Relax

Remember to dial down anxiety, particularly in the course of flu period. Set aside a minimum of a few minutes each day. Meditation, inhaling and exhaling exercises & yoga, therapeutic massage, a few minutes within a sauna, as well as knitting are all great ways to discharge tension’s tight grip, boost immunity and enhance mental and physical resilience.

4. Get Filthy

Ditch anti-bacterial soaps and hand sanitizers, which consist of toxins that more than-dry and fracture the skin, developing perfect conditions for popular transmission. Alternatively, wash fingers with the timeless classics – boiling water and chemical-cost-free soap, or try a couple of drops of lavender essential oil to naturally sterilize hands.

5. Stay Moist

As in avoid dehydration. Hours invested baking the body in overheated homes and offices dries out out the nose, mouth and lips, all of these need dampness to help control viral intruders. Fight rear by water throughout the day; maintain pans of fresh water on top of radiators to incorporate moisture to the air; and hydrate sinus passages with a saline apply or neti pot therapies.

Keep these tips in mind, stick them into motion and stay nicely this winter season.

be happy, be healthy….☺☺