The One And Only ‘Method’ To Live A Happy Life
Maybe a better question to ask is when you don’t feel or think you’re living a happy life? The answer to this question reveals a lot.
Ask yourself when you think or feel you’re not happy. You will find that it’s most likely in situations or moments when something happens that you didn’t want to happen or didn’t happen the way you wanted it to and caused you to feel less than happy-joyful-calm and upset you.
But when everything is going smoothly and ‘according to plan’ it is easier to be feeling happy.
So, why is that?
Is it because of what people say to you or because something unexpected happen?
If that’s the case, we are forever bound by what is happening around us and a victim of circumstance. We would then only have a few sporadic opportunities to live a happy life and that is never (nor has that ever been) Spirit’s or the universe’s intention.
In the eyes of Spirit everything is love. We have been born and have come here our of love- we are love. To then only have a few fleeting moments of happiness in our live- if we’re lucky- goes against Spirit’s nature.
The reason you don’t live a happy life is because you (and all of us) have been conditioned to believe that what happens outside of us- people and circumstances- is separated from you and that events come ‘towards’ you or happen ‘to’ you.
A very good example of this is the saying: “seeing is believing”.
In other words: first you see something on the outside to only then believe it is there- that it exists.
But nothing could be further from the truth.
The way to live a happy life is not determined by what is happening outside of yourself, but the way youlookat what is happening outside of yourself.
Your opinion about what is happening (‘this shouldn’t have happened’, ‘he is wrong’, ‘I am not good enough’)- your perspective- determines your state of happiness. Not someone else. Never anything or someone else.
What you see is what you believe, think and feel to be true on the inside. There is nothing outside of yourself.
Everything, your reality, the world you live in and experience, is your idea– your belief- of what you think is happening.
And if this doesn’t make you happy or makes it hard for you to live a happy life, then you must ask yourself what caused this inside of you.
When you change this- change your perspective, your opinion- about what appears to be happening, the pain that was caused by your opinion will go.
There is only one way to live a happy life: check inside what is making you unhappy. Happiness is your own creation.
Let me know what you think. Your comment is welcome below!